“A woman sneaking off to the abortuary without telling her husband,”
Oh yes women have had abortions without telling their husbands.
I’ve also posted stories of men who tried to stop their wives/girlfriends from having an abortion but were unable to because it’s “her body” says the law and he has no say over it.
Yes, I’ve seen such posts.
My point is that one set of actions is a violation of statutory law, the other is not. It’s a double standard.
Of course, I’d prefer a single standard: abortion being illegal.