you're either whipped of got lucky enough to find a good woman. Imagine how you would handle hearing your most confidential thoughts and feelings being mashed in your face the next time she got pissed at you for what ever reason... Imaging hearing “Well what about you” every time you protested or took issue with something... and then when its all said and done, blame you for their reactions/behavior. use your response to their behavior against you...
It was fkng miserable. and I now have 2 out of 3 kids doing the same identical thing. create the problem, and use my reaction as cause for judgment and resentment... smmfh...