My next door neighbors are a young black married couple, both with good jobs and a beautiful 3 year old son and both have parents that watch the boy when they are working...you know, a solid family structure.
The difference is not skin color, it is environment.
My guess is that in the "hood" my neighbors would be called "Oreos" and that might be the best thing said about them, but in my "hood" they are wonderful friends and welcome neighbors.
So true. Denzel Washington speaks about this very thing along with others. But the truth destroys the narrative, so it doesn't get the traction it deserves.