Laser tattoo removal gives people who stupidly got tattoos a new lease on life. In the past someone who got them was stuck in a permanent underclass, now you can have them removed and rejoin civilization. The nose ring can be taken out in a second, just get rid of the thing and never put it back in.
There's no reason to overthink it. She looks like trash, men who aren't losers don't want to "wife up" trash. Stop looking like trash and your prospects will markedly improve.