As tough as it can be sometimes, going with Matt 6:14 is way better than Matt 6:15, so it’s always good to choose wisely in that moment between stimulus and response as to what your response will be.
I must admit that you’re a much better example of this than I would be in your situation here with you and your fan club.
Cheers!
In your case it’s totally fine to disrespect, degrade and humiliate. You earned it yourself.