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To: Wally_Kalbacken

My husband of 27 years had an affair once that trust was gone the marriage was over!! I kicked his ass to the curb and never looked back!! I don’t know how some women can forgive the betrayal I guess I am not that strong!!


4 posted on 12/20/2023 1:54:14 AM PST by Trump Girl Kit Cat (Yosemite Sam raising hell)
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To: Trump Girl Kit Cat

Yes, can only 👁️ discerning wedding a true believer.

For the dating, proof of commitment certainty essential. Knowing the true nature of whom one’s with. Worthy. Trust Worthy


6 posted on 12/20/2023 2:07:25 AM PST by Varsity Flight ( "War by 🙏🙏 the prophesies set before you." I Timothy 1:18. Nazarite prayer warriors. 10.5.6.5)
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To: Trump Girl Kit Cat

“My husband of 27 years had an affair once that trust was gone the marriage was over!! I kicked his ass to the curb and never looked back!! I don’t know how some women can forgive the betrayal I guess I am not that strong!!”

It goes both ways, yet the courts are stacked against the male. Until that changes nothing is equitable when one spouse runs amok.


10 posted on 12/20/2023 4:02:18 AM PST by Clutch Martin ("The trouble ain't that there is too many fools, but that the lightning ain't distributed right." )
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To: Trump Girl Kit Cat

“My husband of 27 years had an affair once that trust was gone the marriage was over!! I kicked his ass to the curb and never looked back!! I don’t know how some women can forgive the betrayal I guess I am not that strong!!”

I’m married 34 years now. Menu is nice to look at but I never ordered anything from it.


14 posted on 12/20/2023 4:39:04 AM PST by EQAndyBuzz
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To: Trump Girl Kit Cat

“My husband of 27 years had an affair once that trust was gone the marriage was over!! I kicked his ass to the curb and never looked back!! I don’t know how some women can forgive the betrayal I guess I am not that strong!!”

I’m married 34 years now. Menu is nice to look at but I never ordered anything from it.


15 posted on 12/20/2023 4:42:00 AM PST by EQAndyBuzz
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To: Trump Girl Kit Cat

Your reaction is understandable.

I cannot comprehend how marriages stay together after cheating - but I know several that did. One was a good friend, well paid professional with great career ...., cheated, left his wife and kids and married his lover. After a few years he got religion, realized his sin, ... and somehow remarried his first wife - totally faithful. They were married for another 40 years before he passed away in his mid 80s. You never would have known this about their marriage(s).


19 posted on 12/20/2023 4:59:43 AM PST by Susquehanna Patriot
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To: Trump Girl Kit Cat

Is the reverse *always* appropriate? Is it foolish for a guy to ever even *consider* forgiving his wife?


24 posted on 12/20/2023 5:22:26 AM PST by Gay State Conservative (Proudly Clinging To My Guns And My Religion)
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To: Trump Girl Kit Cat

You’re the strong one. It’s the weak ones who stay.


28 posted on 12/20/2023 5:28:33 AM PST by CaptainK ("If life's really hard, at least its short")
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To: Trump Girl Kit Cat
I don’t know how some women can forgive the betrayal I guess I am not that strong!!

One word: MONEY

32 posted on 12/20/2023 5:55:35 AM PST by unixfox (Abolish Slavery, Repeal the 16th Amendment)
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To: Trump Girl Kit Cat
Yep, and if it happened to me, I would forgive my spouse, but I'd kick her to the curb too. I'd be nice, professional, polite, get in shape, and do well.

THAT is the best revenge: doing well and being happy.

33 posted on 12/20/2023 6:14:55 AM PST by DCBryan1 (Inter arma enim silent leges! - Cicero )
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To: Trump Girl Kit Cat

That’s what should be done...to the curb!


62 posted on 12/20/2023 8:53:00 AM PST by caww (O death, when you seized my Lord, you lost your grip on me......)
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To: Trump Girl Kit Cat

you’re very strong....too many women are afraid to take a stand....


64 posted on 12/20/2023 9:09:37 AM PST by cherry
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To: Trump Girl Kit Cat

Your response to his betrayal, while accepted by the majority of freepers here, is appalling to me if you’re a Christian.

Is forgiveness not basically the heart of being Christian?
Biblically you do have grounds for divorce, but no grounds
for not forgiving him. After 27 years I’d guess you already wanted out anyways.


73 posted on 12/21/2023 4:39:45 AM PST by BrandtMichaels ( Why I Oughta! One of these days... Bang, Zoom, To The Moon!)
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