I only demand the use of the pronouns "they/them" when my other, "subordinate" personalities are trying to take over my body.
What slimy little bassturds they are.;-)
I refused to take on a client that wanted me to identify her as they/them. I thought overnight about whether I could do it, knowing that ethically lawyers are encouraged to take on unpopular causes, and decided I could not let myself get bogged down in that person’s mental illness. So I declined the representation.