She is always portrayed as the stoic martyr wife but she was very domineering in planning the mourning, the funeral and the selection of the gravesite, to the point of micromanagement.
RFK was her omnipresent facilitator during all of that. Perhaps it was political, perhaps it was personal, perhaps he was just a dedicated brother-in-law.
RFK was the most powerful law enforcement operative in the country. Yet he allowed the Warren Commission to stumble around and come up with incompetent, no experience in the field Arlen Specter to come up with the single bullet theory and decades of suspicion have been the consequence. It’s like the dog that didn’t bark.