[AndyJackson]

That checklist should include things like: What do they do for a job? Do they maintain basic adult responsibilities – like remembering to take the rubbish out, how to do laundry, can they cook a basic meal? Where do they live? Have they been to jail? If yes, what for? How long ago was their last relationship? Why did they break up? What’s their take on contraception? Condoms should be a non-negotiable people! Do you feel safe around them? Do you feel confident they will contact you the next morning?

Do you actually have an adult conversation with your date? What do you do and whereabouts do you live are kind of basic things you discover about someone. Or are you realy a slut and just jump into bed with a guy who chats you up at the bar and buys a couple of rounds?

IOWs is your life lesson to stop being a slut and start being a whore? Or should you try to be a real woman worthy of a relationship with a real man? And this is not about sexual morality. It's about you having enough character to demand character from the guy you are going to have a relationship with.

[cgbg]

“Have they been to jail? If yes, what for?”

Lol. I am sure every rapist would let her know on the first date.

;-)