“so it is my job to make sure he is asking for the right things. “
No... he’s 22. It really is NOT your job. Your overbearing way of running his life into adulthood is probably why he wound up knocking that chick up.
It’s also why Pink Floyd wrote the Wall, the opus to overbearing mothers.
He didn’t “knock her up”....That’s what this whole thing is about...he’s not the one who got her pregnant...
Just a brief note... he did NOT knock the girl up. The baby is not his. But he did have sex with her so it may be just a lucky break that she got pregnant from someone else of the others she was sleeping around with.