[Secret Agent Man]

Dam right.

Men without purpose really also shouldn’t be considering relationship with women. Too many decide to make their purpose/focus onto the woman, and thats a recipe for disaster. Thats the way a man destroys a relationship.

[Boogieman]

Making the woman your purpose may be a mistake, but making a family your purpose has traditionally been the normal choice that most men have made throughout history, to great effect. And you can't do that if women are not amenable.