I just wish the judge and lawyers in my divorce understood I didnt know what I was marrying, and I shouldn't have to give her most of my stuff, the good car, the paid off house, and pay child support - because my parents never taught me what a good woman was. Truthfully my marriage cost me waaaaay more than your student loan. WAAAAAAAY more.
Your comment hit resonance frequency with me. I too, know the financial pain of marrying the wrong woman. I could have put two kids through Harvard with the money I paid in my divorce.
New Hampshire is a 50-50 state...