You probably described at least a thousand country songs right there.
Yep, music can really be a negative influence on life, and even deadly. When Jimmy’s song was out, everywhere I looked, while out looking for that perfect girl, there was girls with magaritas in their hands.
Before meeting my wife, I dated at least 3 girls whose future worried me. Later, seeing them drunk was a sad thing, but I was grateful to have moved on. One lost her license for a couple years. May have saved her life.