[JudyinCanada]

Now that is interesting. I hadn’t thought of the planes - thanks for the information.

[STARLIT]

Judy, not a problem. Remember HM's cabin burned and she had to live in a trailer. Well, her mind never wants to stop and I knew this trailer would about drive her bonkers so I left my cell on all the time on speaker. That way I'd know if she was awake and need something to occupy her mind. So many nights I would put someone's video on my computer with the sound up high so she could hear information. We learned so much during that time. We'd listen to many people with all kinds of information here and there. We never knew if it was true but we would just talk everything over and come to terms with how we saw it. It really helped her especially because she never read anything other than law books or suppose to be real life. So when our world was turned upside down my years of fiction turned out to be more real life than her world.

So I honestly understand this is a very mind boggling time for many.

Some nights I cried and couldn't sleep thinking about the foster care program. I adopted our son through an evil system. All the books I would look through picking out a child to adopt and they would have reasons I couldn't have that child. I'm talking many picture folders. And it hit me one night that those children weren't actually up for adoption I had looked at. My son is one of the blessed that survived and it was through one welfare worker needing to repay another for finding a child for them.

I had someone to bounce many different things with for hours at a time whereas many do not have this safe support system to help them.