Wow. So many sad stories. I could add a few of my own, but it’s not necessary.
One thing that really jumped out at me was this. As sad and horrific as these happenings had to be, what struck me is that these various hardships seemed to turn out such good adults.
Honestly, I tutored for years, and the kids that I encountered over the years all seemed to have lots of stuff, and very few hardships. Most of them didn’t turn out to be the responsible, considerate adults that y’all seem to be. I know it’s a view from afar, but I long ago came to the conclusion that spoiling really does mean SPOILED. As in rotten. As in not much good for anything.
I guess it’s a combination of hardships, difficult relationships, even some abuse.....but giving it over to God to heal and transform makes everything better. As Scripture tells us, we go through turmoil and come out of it for the purpose of helping others in the same situation.
What you and others have overcome and turned around for your own families is a remarkable feat. Kudos to you all.
That is SO true… for whatever reason my sister and I were treated tougher and with more discipline (not abusive - well, borderline with my mom), while our brothers got to do whatever they wanted and rarely got in trouble.
Guess who in my family had the hardest time in the real world?
My brothers have had a difficult time keeping jobs, relationships, and managing money. My sister and I ended up much more responsible and ethical. Both of us handle money better too. So, all in all, I am thankful my parents were as tough on me as they were.