Bingo. My dad knew the cure for ADHD and I’m damn glad he did. None of his kids were ever in trouble. Same with my kids.
And 9 times out of 10, L.O.B. is preceded by L.O.F.
Lack of Father.
Unless “dad” is a beta. Usually it’s either NO dad or stepdad.
My father was old school European and EXTREMELY reserved but you didn’t DARE cross him! My sister and I (two girls) weren’t allowed to make any noise (all noise was defined as “racket”) stomp, be rough, slam doors, damage anything, be annoying or rambunctious, touch anything at grandma’s and we needed to be lady-like at all times.