I was going to designate my good friend as the person to make decisions for me if I am unable to, as she is in the medical field. But lately I’ve been apprehensive about that as she IS in the medical field. OTOH, , my kids don’t know other than what they are told.
What do you think?
Can you do a combination? Maybe your friend and one of your kids?
Not an easy situation.
Wish we lived closer.