In the early 90s, Etheridge stole Lou Diamond Phillips' wife Julie Cypher. The two woman later "had" two children with the DNA of David Crosby. Later, around 2000, they were marital trouble and went into couples' therapy.
In therapy, Julie Cypher discovered she isn't really a lesbian, she's straight. (I think they were together eight or nine years) That must have been an awkward conversation.