I don’t assume that JR knows this has been going on.
I like to think that if he could, he would do something about it.
And I hope he gets well soon.
I’d like to weigh in on the HG situation.
If (using “if” not because I don’t believe you) this is indeed how he’s treating you then I’d say that not only is he a coward for using pm’s rather than just being a man about it but you also OWN him …it’s not the other way around. Somehow you got to him, you’re in his head. He’s harassing you privately just makes him a schmuck. That you are trying to get it out here among friends is a natural reaction.
My theory certainly does not make it easier for you to bear, there is just more than one way to look at something
God Bless,
KC
I could be wrong, here..I think I remember JR & HG are friends...