You want to be seen as a man, but you want to be treated like a woman.
To make matters worse, you criticize "all cis-gendered white men" while simultaneously presenting yourself as one.
No wonder you don't have any friends.
How did that work out for you, bro / sis?
If "he" wanted to be influential on men, he should have remained a female.
Real men don't like to be lectured by fake ones.