You need to get out more. All young people see now, is race. The label everyone as either an oppressed group, or an oppressor group. In fact, these young people will even say it is a sign of your racism if you say you are colorblind.
Not trying to be combative, but you couldn’t be more wrong about today’s young people. Another difference is now the young people are mostly biased against “whiteness”.
It depends where you are. Some parts of the country are worse than others in that regard