marcia gay harden has three children
one is gay
one is nonbinary
and
one is gender fluid
what are the odds of that?
Pretty high, as it indicates that Marcia herself is seriously f***ed up. As I’ve heard so many gay actors and musicians lament, “My mother made me a homosexual!”
To which a gay friend of mine used to reply, “That’s wonderful. If I buy her the yarn will she make me one too?”
Yeah 3-for-3 -- that's Imposter Syndrome delivered via Munchausen's By Proxy. And she ain't the only mother who has done the same thing to her children. Many lesbian couples do the exact same thing. It's abuse, pure and simple. BTW, Harden divorced the father of her three wackos in 2012 and has not remarried. A-hem.
There's the real question -- why are all of these Gen X (albeit Harden is a late Boomer) and Millenial women whacked in the head?
My belief is they are spoiled by mostly absent fathers (Harden is a Navy brat, and not maligning Navy service, but you can go a year without seeing your kids), and then that is compounded by how they see inequity (for instance, some blacks succeed, but many do not, even within the same family) but these women consistently do not see the role personal responsibility and exceptionalism play in pulling yourself up by the bootstraps.