Its still horrible thing to say! What difference does it make, why are you even asking the question?
I was musing on the extra tragedy of their senseless deaths and perhaps that there was more pain coming to survivors if they were not legally married yet in terms of litigation, lawsuits and settlements, survivors left behind. It doesn’t matter. I apologize for the insensitivity. Thanks for pointing out the view of it. I didn’t see it. It was unintentional. RIP.