Look I’m not defending his behavior, he comes off as an a$$hole. I despise abusive men whether that abuse be physical or emotional. This video apparently was from a few years ago, so why did she continue to stick around? It appeared there existed little or no love and affection there (despite her phony I still love you bit which seemed contrived for affect). She obviously stuck around for the money so that takes away whatever sympathy I might have had for her.
The I love yous were fear. I think the family released it because maybe they thought this could get the divorce over with. I am sure he wants her to have nothing and keep her from moving on out of meaness.
After listening to his explanation video, I would bet he is doing all he can to delay and argue.
He claims he still loves her but that video sure wasn’t a bit convincing when he also claims that he chose wrong. Yeah, Steven, that’ll convince her. I am glad love isn’t that.