Help this old man understand that label. Trans lesbian is a guy who identifies as female but is lesbian and thus likes females? Does that mean he is straight?
So Tara is a guy who says he feels like a woman and wants to be called a woman who is attracted to men who claim to be women? Or is he attracted to other real women?
These guys who want to dress like women have a lot of testosterone.
Most of these guys are still "straight" underneath all of their psychoses, but the nonstop media/Hollywood message of "Male Sexuality Bad/Female Sexuality Good" has helped push them to a place where they think they have to become a fake female to relate to real females.
Remember when all the old detective magazines had lurid cover headlines like "Transvestite Thrill Killer Stalks Women in Five Cities"? The psychiatric problem has been with us for a long time - it's only that recently the Left has decided to celebrate it to increase societal division and thereby further the Revolution.
YES!!!
There is no understanding this, but I think you got it right.