Agree with your first part. Second part not so much.. they didn’t exist or definitely didn’t show their face in the establishments I visited.
Pro tip: stunningly attractive women usually gravitate towards drug dealing bad boys for a life of ritual abuse, emotional torture and a bit of okay sex. Why they do this, nobody has ever worked out, since they could get all of those from far nicer men and perhaps less of the first two. So it must be for the drugs.
And no I’m not an incel.