Trying to figure out what you want vs how much you can afford/want to spend is the hardest part.
Try to avoid trendy stuff that will be out of style in a few years.
https://www.thespruce.com/steps-to-a-kitchen-remodel-1822229
Know what you want before signing any contracts.
https://www.countryliving.com/remodeling-renovation/home-makeovers/g1233/kitchen-makeovers/
https://www.houzz.com/discussions/query/total-kitchen-remodel/nqrwns
These Stud Pack videos are pretty good.
https://youtu.be/IO5nn_BdawA
More YouTube advice.
https://youtu.be/SgkfFn0vB7Q
Also - nothing will be as square & level as you might think. LoL!
bookmark , we need both a kitchen and a master bathroom remodel. Not looking forward to the process. Looking for contractors.