“Children who are normally confused about gender”
Normally confused???? While growing up, did you ever meet a kid who did not know what his sex was? If you did, just who did you hang out with?
No, no, no, a thousand times no; children, traditionally and historically, have NEVER, EVER, been confused about gender.
You have drunk the kool aid.
YOUR world is not the whole world. Stop being narrow. Listen to Jordan Peterson and he will tell you that in psychology it is well documented that girls have more gender issues than boys traditionally for over 100 years. They both typically grow out of it by the time they reach 18, but some need to talk about it.
With today's social media and children living on it, the whole gender, appearance and social constructs are more confusing than ever.
Leaving these children with no guidance or handing them over to the genital mutilators is equally evil.