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IMHO once the kid turns 18 the rules start to change, and if the child makes an adult choice like moving in with the BF, there are consequences.

Some additional data would be nice such as the daughter's age, only child, how long she was gone, and if they had a rules meeting before she moved back in. Also, who posted, I kind of think the mom.

1 posted on 01/29/2023 5:51:42 AM PST by where's_the_Outrage?
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Is He Wrong For airing his family’s dirty laundry in public?

Yes.


38 posted on 01/29/2023 7:37:46 AM PST by Bob434
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He who pays the bills make the rules.


42 posted on 01/29/2023 7:55:46 AM PST by HamiltonJay
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I came home from Colgate as a freshman for Labor Day weekend, 3 days after I started college.

My bedroom was gone, given to one of my sisters.

That’s the way the cookie crumbles.


44 posted on 01/29/2023 7:59:14 AM PST by Jim Noble (You have sat too long for any good you have been doing)
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The dreaded C word!!
Consequences.
She flew the nest, to be a grownup.
FF 30 years, will Mom or Dad get to pick the room in the house of Precious, where they will spend their sunset years? They’ll be lucky if they have any say whether home or nursing home.


45 posted on 01/29/2023 8:03:44 AM PST by Buttons12 ( Do you not think an Angel rides in the Whirlwind and directs this Storm?)
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after refusing to turn his home office back to her room, the OP says his daughter is treating him like the enemy.

Oh well in that case, put her out on the curb. If you can't bring yourself to do that, at least secure the silverware.

47 posted on 01/29/2023 8:06:29 AM PST by Buttons12 ( Do you not think an Angel rides in the Whirlwind and directs this Storm?)
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Daughter is spoiled. Most likely not even paying rent

If she doesn’t like the arrangement change the locks


55 posted on 01/29/2023 8:57:11 AM PST by Nifster (I see puppy dogs in the clouds )
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Beggars...


56 posted on 01/29/2023 9:22:23 AM PST by Chode (there is no fall back position, there's no rally point, there is no LZ... we're on our own. #FJB)
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Neither right nor wrong. It’s his choice.


57 posted on 01/29/2023 9:49:38 AM PST by I want the USA back (News media are pond scum. My pronouns: Haha, heehee, hoho, hoo hoo. )
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The boyfriend took the job to get away from her...


58 posted on 01/29/2023 10:10:15 AM PST by Vendome (I've Gotta Be Me https://youtu.be/wH-pk2vZG2M)
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One more nag and it’s the garage for you.


59 posted on 01/29/2023 10:11:14 AM PST by RetiredTexasVet (Biden not only suffers fools and criminals, he appoints them to positions of responsibility. )
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I can’t even imagine the reasoning of people who would argue that Dad should give in.


60 posted on 01/29/2023 10:22:01 AM PST by gloryblaze
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We IMMEDIATELY repainted our son’s bedroom PINK with flowery wallpaper after he moved out making it the guest bedroom and the other bedroom into a sewing room.

Sorry Charlie, you are NOT moving back in, PERIOD!


61 posted on 01/29/2023 11:03:30 AM PST by faucetman (Just the facts, ma'am, Just the facts )
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Maybe she’d prefer the basement?


62 posted on 01/29/2023 12:11:21 PM PST by mass55th ("Courage is being scared to death, but saddling up anyway." ~~ John Wayne )
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My daughter, quit her job, and college and moved out with friends in an apartment. She traded her job as a pharmacists assistant, which was supported by the classes in college. She wanted to work at Starbucks.

I actually tore out the wall to her bedroom, and made the living room bigger.


63 posted on 01/29/2023 12:55:03 PM PST by Glad2bnuts ("People who didn't take take the Jab have -0- regrets, those who did may be SADS.)
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