I am very sorry to hear of your brother’s condition, and the extreme burden that will obviously cause you, so I will keep you both in my prayers.
I would not give him any negative information whatsoever, only positive information, and constant encouragement. I’m not qualified to comment on what sort of medications he should be on, and suggest you do your own research and try to obtain multiple opinions from qualified doctors and provided if possible, including alternative options.
God Bless and good luck.
He had already decided to not take the Tuesday chemo without my input. He had been told something about not taking herbal supplements, and I had included Milk Thistle in the order. That was not on a list of about 30 herbs to avoid before surgery. I suggested he not take that and several others for 2 or 3 days before surgery to avoid bleeding issues during surgery. I also told him to take his Vitamin E midway between his breakfast and bedtime supplements, as I saw it could interfere with Lutien and perhaps others. I am also changing my own time for taking E.