Me too. I have long fingers on big hands, I could palm a basketball in the 3rd grade, I’m still using and very pleased with my 4 year old iPhone 10 XS Max. If Apple made a phone even 1/4 “ bigger than the iPhone 10 XS Max I’d jump all over it rather than a smaller unit.
You could always use an iPad mini and Google phone, I did that for a while. Don't even own an iPhone anymore, wife does and I never leave house without her so I just take my 12.9 in iPad Pro with a data plan with me. Life is good.