“Basically, a single man who’s into Jesus for real has his pick of chicks.
The pitfall in that scenario is the number of “reformed” women who had their party years, then found Jesus miraculously when the invitations diminished.”
You nailed that answer.
Plenty of women go through their party years, hit 30, and join a church specifically to find a husband. They aren’t looking for a godly man so much as a stable, responsible provider.
From 18-30 they looked for men in bars. From 30 onward they look for men in church. Not really a good catch for a godly man.
These are the same women who will leave their husband after two kids and they’ve turned 45 because they have “grown apart”.
Yep
From personal experience, a churchgoing girl is just as likely or more than a non-churchgoer to be a sexual degenerate.
Women in the western world today tend to make themselves unmarriageable by sleeping around during their prime years. They question why they can't find a man that meets their standards because they are pretty, they enjoy sex, and have DD's. They're popular when they go to the bars but can't understand why a top notch guy won't commit to them. What they don't understand is that it isn't in a man's best interest to commit to a woman who has had multiple partners in the past. Biology tells the male that a female who has slept around in the past is unlikely to be a faithful partner after she's married, which increases the likelihood that a child won't be biologically his and the chances that he'll end up in divorce court fighting for his assets.
Women for the most part don't care how many other women a man has slept with, they actually see it as desirable if a man they're with has a lot of past partners, it proves she's caught a man other women want. They mistakenly think that it works the other way, that a man shouldn't care how many other men she's been with either because she doesn't care about it with him. Any woman can get sex just by making herself available however, high numbers don't prove she's desirable, just that she has low morals. That's not desirable to a man, a man biologically wants a woman who will be loyal so as to lessen the chance that a child born to them has been fathered by another man. Women with high past partner numbers are intuitively going to be less likely to be loyal, which is why men will dally with them but are hesitant to marry them. Women don't seem to understand that their past actually DOES matter, they think they can just stop being the town bicycle one day and all is forgotten. It doesn't work that way.