Yep. My wife and I meet all three of your numbered points and, yep...
In all seriousness, it's amazing that us Christians sit back and let the worldly people do all the talking about sex like they know what they're talking about when for the most part they have more trouble getting their Love Boat out of dry dock. Us Christians ought to talk about the joys of married sex more often, particularly if we can find a way to do so without betraying our spouse's privacy. An argument could be made that the world is in the mess it's in in part because we've been too quiet and haven't educated people on how best to get what many folks want most (sex) by doing it God's way. Us leaving that void in the discussion is part of what makes worldly hedonism so attractive (because it's the only voice about sex).