A woman’s prime value in the dating marketplace is between the ages of 18 and 28 (some might argue it’s between 22 and 28).
Many women during this span gravitate to the party life with plenty of casual sex, leaving for later the important task of settling down to a meaningful life.
When a woman eventually decides to become serious, (envision Marisa Tomei stomping her foot), the men who meet her criteria are no longer interested in her.
And therein lies the HUGE problem in this whole male/female mess we are in.
Men, and women, see each other too much as a commodity, something to be bought and sold or traded in on if it doesn’t work out the way they expect. It’s dehumanizing and selfish and shallow.
It’s all about what the individual can get out of someone else and what that someone else can do for them.
Until both sides can see relationships as something besides a self-serving business contract, these problems will continue to exist.
(Many women during this span gravitate to the party life with plenty of casual sex)
My girlfriend dumped me for the frat boys at college. Shockingly, none of them wanted her after college. Duh
Party life was her calling.
She wanted to come back but I no longer trusted her.
So I got one dating decision correct. LOL 🤣