Twenty year spread. Sounds like you had your first at a young age. Very similar to my best friend’s family…the oldest, to youngest. There are seven of them.
Are they all close, now that they’re grown?
Not that young, 22 years old for my 1st child.
And now you know how old I was when I had the last and my what a joy he is.
There are 6 boys and 2 girls who are spread out all over the states and Australia.
The girls even though they live in different states are extremely close.
Weddings and funerals always bring most of us together for visits.
I had 4 children, 1st at 20yo and the last at 30yo. The younget girls are products of a different husband than the boys, but my boys do not get along as adults. My oldest is bipolor.