Yikes! My complete sympathies. If you and DH ever think about relocating, might I suggest Oklahoma? Beautiful place despite tornadoes (but lots of houses have storm shelters now, & many of the older ones were built with cellars). Plus, our elections, while not perfect, are pretty above-board.
Very pleased about Markwayne Mullin winning his Senate bid. If Pres. Trump liked him enough to endorse him, that's good enough for me.
I’m scared of flatlands. I don’t see mountains I feel weird.