Maybe it makes men feel more paternalistic? I know that may be worse than pedophilia to the woke, but my daughter worked as a waitress in college.
“Maybe it makes men feel more paternalistic?”
My wife and I got to become friends with our regular waitress at Applebee’s. She’s probably 27? I never minded my wife wanting to give her a bigger tip than usual - I think you might be right in some cases about being paternalistic.
She even called my wife one night as she couldn’t get her car started at the restaurant! We’re only 3 miles down the road so it was easy enough to help her out.