I agree—the videos and photos are totally unconvincing.
At the end of the day there are folks who have had the “experience” and those who have not.
And—you either believe those folks or you do not.
I think the vast majority of the contactees are telling the truth to the best of their ability.
If you want to hear some of their stories one place to start is this interview of Semivan:
https://podbay.fm/p/aliens-and-artists/e/1645119331
and then start from the beginning (oldest first) in these podcasts:
https://podbay.fm/p/aliens-and-artists
Thanks for the link. I’m curious to hear them.