There is no female soloist of robust build currently in my habitat. Only males of various dimensions, all of them resulting in my really wanting to cry a lot and then run away to ... well, that’s the problem.
Yes, I get that, and I wholeheartedly agree with the wanting to cry a lot and run away. *sigh*
As the late Tiamat said, “Some days it just doesn’t pay to chew through the straps.”