Everyone knows that productive, responsible people get few breaks and sad-sacks and the black sheeps have the world tripping over themselves to “help”…(the self-righteous high is irresistible to the helpers).
To get that “help” you have to be pathetic in some way, and who wants that? Be happy if you are productive and can say you squared your debts. There’s satisfaction in that which no freeloader can steal.
Well said, and spot on.
They love to prop themselves up by giving ‘the little people’ the shirt off of someone else’s back.