Pray and offer positive support and find a doctor who thinks rather than has been programmed. My wife, her sister and every familial offspring including our great-grand kids inherited a nasty cancer generating defect called Lynch Syndrome.
My wife contracted stage III colon cancer at 39. Uterine cancer at 44. She’s going to be 79 in October. Her sister has had multiple bouts with colon cancer and now our kids are starting to develop cancers too even though they are under medical surveillance and have been since becoming adults.
As you can see, cancer is terrible and it scares the Hell out of everyone around the person, but not everybody dies due to the cancer diagnosis. Prayer, solid support and good medicine can make all the difference. God Bless.
One of my concerns. He has HMO Kaiser so I don't know if they will go the extra mile. He has great bosses in a family run successful $$ business so I think they will step up if Kaiser is falling down.