If the gay caballero with the ill-mannered boxer got out of there with no damage it probly wasn’t my brother. But according to the geneology lady I have something over 12,000 living cousins so it still could have been anyone of half of them. The other half are girls who are mostly less predictable. But glad to hear you were watching the guy. As Yogi Berra noted: you can observe a lot by watching.
As a side note, when watching someone for their next move, focus more on their belt buckle/mid section. No one can make a feint or jink move without first telegraphing it by their waist.
geeze...is your last name sackett ?