These women aren’t the sort to lean that way. They just don’t care.
But yes, by and large you are 100% correct
I check most of the supposed boxes. 6 feet, 185 lb, high 6 figures engineer 2 years from fully funded retirement, own house, have traveled all over the world. Can build and fix cars, electronics, homes. Grow my own vegetables, excellent cook, and despite that I haven’t dated most of my adult life. Generally, if I notice someone she is already married and is going to stay married, or I just was not born with the skill of attracting women or as my mother likes to believe, my soul mate was simply aborted decades ago. I guess I am just going to continue to travel until I keel over. I have signed off all of my trusts and assets to go to charity if I kick the bucket.