The “abusive lazy bums” don’t dream of being married and rescued from their own situation, and cry on the internet about not being married.
Because marriage largely benefits only one side of the relationship, and it isn’t the mans’ side.
“Because marriage largely benefits only one side of the relationship, and it isn’t the mans’ side.”
Based on my personal experience with friends and family, when a spouse dies the remaining widower is remarried in within a year. If it’s a remaining widow she rarely remarries. I know it’s not scientif, but only my observation.
I know that when my dad died in 2008, my mom’s life began. Ditto with my aunt. Guys I know, both widowers and divorcees, have remarried quickly. They must not hate marriage too much.