“They want a man for his utility. Money, physical security, and fixing things and doing all the crap they don’t want to do.”
It’s part of the natural order, and the way the genders were created. Men are supposed to take care of the women.
“But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.” I Tim. 5:8
If a guy resents a woman wanting a husband who will provide for her, and he won’t provide for her, he’s worse than an a sinner.
Washed up whores with other guys babies do not wife up well.
I think a quality my wife likes most in me, is that whatever bad thing happens, I’ll say, “Don’t worry about it, I’ll deal with it”. And I do.
Women like the security of having a man who will deal with whatever the world decides to throw.