200,000 German citizens were killed in the bombing of Dresden:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bombing_of_Dresden_in_World_War_II
Both atomic bombs killed 64,000:
https://www.atomicarchive.com/resources/documents/med/med_chp10.html
Obama wanted to apologize for Hiroshima but Japanese officials told him not to do so.
MSM still gave stories like this at the time:
https://www.yahoo.com/news/hiroshima-atomic-bomb-victims-want-apology-obama-115648493.html
One of my German friend’s mother survived Dresden. She and I both had mothers who lived through catastrophic bombings. That is our connection.
That figure has been reduced dramatically; it's understood to be less than 35k.