Your ancestors were pawns used by evil men who fought and caused the deaths of some 600,000 Americans so they could keep an entire race of beings in bondage and NOTHING is ever going to change that.
You Southerners opened fire on Ft. Sumter.
Your side invaded Maryland and Pennsylvania and got your asses kicked.
No, *YOUR* ancestors were pawns used by evil men who fought and caused the deaths of 750,000 people directly, perhaps millions indirectly, and subjugated 30 million people under their rule.
You keep forgetting that Lincoln offered up Permanent slavery in the USA forever.
You don't get to play the moral "slavery" high card when your side was deliberately selling out the slaves.
The fact that *YOUR* side was deliberately selling out the slaves ought to be a clue to you that they were actually evil people.