This is what happens when kids aren’t properly raised, disciplined and taught that actions have consequences.
Participation trophies and time-outs aren’t cutting it.
My brother-in-law’s daughter, who was raised differently from these people, was worried about an interview for a job she wanted. He said to just show up dressed as if you want the job and you will get it. She did and kept it by behaving normally according to standards of the family.