If the son literally did call his parents “A-Holes” for setting condoms about that money, that son is extremely disrespectful. The dad may have only meant there was vigorous disagreement from the son. Each family has it’s own rules about what acceptable behavior means.
**condoms = conditions!
“If the son literally did call his parents ‘A-Holes’ for setting condoms about that money, that son is extremely disrespectful.”
If he did that, it’s his parents’ fault; they didn’t raise him right.