The decent thing would have been for the dude to have respected the cemetery rules and not placed obnoxious wooden planters and his photos that became rotten debris.
“the decent thing for a loving father to do would be to respect her decision and her man, both when she was alive and now, after her death.”
What a load of touchy feely nonsense. The daughter us gone. They were never married. The father doesn’t have nor should accept some scumbag his daughter foolishly got involved in. That would create 2 fools.